For the two of you
One question a night. Answered apart, revealed together.
Aperi asks you and your partner the same question each evening. You each answer privately, then see both answers at once. It learns what you love talking about and goes deeper over time, and on the nights one question is not enough, the whole library is open.
Tonight’s question arrives
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One evening with Aperi
How a two minute ritual turns into your best conversation of the day.
8:00 pm
The question arrives
You both get the same question, picked for where the two of you are right now.
Whenever suits you
You answer privately
Neither of you sees anything until both answers are in. No copying, no anchoring.
The reveal
Read both answers together
Two honest answers side by side. This is where the conversation starts.
Try it without downloading anything
Answer five questions about yourself, send the link to your partner, and find out how many they can actually guess. It takes about two minutes and there is nothing to sign up for.
Take the couples quizOr start with how well do you know each other?, the couples quiz, or the couples questions game.
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You know them well.
Would you rather we owned a cozy bookshop together or a little beachside cafe?
- They said
- The bookshop, obviously. You would last a week on a beach.
- You guessed
- Bookshop. She would want the cat more than the shop.
It earns the deep questions
Aperi starts light and only goes deeper as you both get comfortable. You never get an intimacy interview on day one.
Level 1: Light
What was the best part of your day today?
Level 2: Curious
What is something small I do that you would miss if I stopped?
Level 3: Open
When did you last feel truly proud of us as a couple?
Level 4: Deep
What is one fear about our future you have not said out loud?
Built for the two of you
Everything that grows around the question you answer each night.
Question packs
Themed collections you sit down and work through together at your own pace, separate from the evening question, from lighthearted date-night decks to the conversations you keep postponing. Or hit shuffle and draw a random question from the whole library.
The evening question is Aperi’s pick. A pack is yours, for when you already know what the two of you need to talk about.
What you've probably tried
We tried them too. Something was always missing.
The Google list
- Same 36 questions for every couple on earth
- You do them once, maybe twice, then what?
- No personalization, no progression, no reason to come back
Card deck apps
- A fixed deck you shuffle past until you stop reaching for it
- No memory of what you already answered, or what you loved
- Nothing stops one of you reading the other’s answer first
- Most charge per person, so couples pay double
Aperi
- One question a day that learns your taste
- Goes deeper over time, at your pace
- Double-blind reveal: both answer before seeing each other’s
- Search the whole library by describing the moment you are in
- One subscription covers both of you
We're just getting started. Our friends and family have been using Aperi for months, and the thing they keep telling us is that they look forward to the evening question. We think you will too.
Where do you feel most at home with me?
Learn something new about your partner tonight
One question. Both answer. Then the real conversation starts.
Free to start. Available on iPhone and Android.